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title: "I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality Kindle Edition"
brand: "hal straus"
price: "₩36539"
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reviews_count: 10
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# I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality Kindle Edition

**Brand:** hal straus
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- **What is this?** I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality Kindle Edition by hal straus
- **How much does it cost?** ₩36539 with free shipping
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## Customer Reviews

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    Misogynist and racist
  

*by B***S on Reviewed in the United States on June 20, 2019*

This book says some unbelievably misogynist and racist things. I've included a couple photos of the most egregious passages. For one, the book blames the increasing prevalence of BPD diagnoses on the "destruction of the nuclear family", divorce, increased time spent in childcare, and changing gender roles -- all things that just happen to be extremely important to women's economic and financial independence. And, incidentally, all things for which there is NO EVIDENCE that they contribute to mental illness in children.There is also a passage where the author blames an EIGHT-YEAR-OLD CHILD for the sexual abuse she suffered from her stepfather, literally saying that she "allowed" it to continue. This is outrageous and offense victim-blaming -- an eight-year-old does not have the mental and emotional capacity to defend herself against an adult sexual predator!Additionally, the author victim-blames again when citing a case of a black woman who supposedly used her "racial sensitivities" to avoid taking responsibility for her actions, the author saying that "railing against racial discrimination was useless without a commitment to work toward changing it". This effectively states that victims of racism are responsible for ending racism and for teaching white people how to not be racist. I hope I don't have to explain why this is ridiculous and egregiously offensive.I do not understand why this book has so many positive reviews. I am sickened by how misogynist and outright absurd many of the claims in this book are.

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    Uncompassionate toward childhood abuse
  

*by T***B on Reviewed in the United States on April 17, 2019*

If I could rate this book 0 stars, I would.  It blames victims of childhood abandonment and sexual abuse for “allowing” abuse to continue and not standing up for themselves. See page 112-113.

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    Judging The Book By It's Cover
  

*by V***V on Reviewed in the United States on February 5, 2019*

I don't know if the title is truly indicative of what a BPD person would say, but I have a really hard time buying it. Publishers love to put shocking titles on their books to attract readership  of the masses instead of appealing to an intelligent inquiring mind. So I felt mildly insulted from the start.  The intro and dryly presented index failed to draw me in.  I just don't think it is fair to reduce a disorder to such an odd statement.  I cannot imagine a person who suspects they have BPD feeling comfortable with it when they are seeking insight.  I find it hard to respect the opinions of an author who would title their book this way and alienate  some of their most important readership. Perhaps they are of the opinion that those people are not as important as their friends and family?  Perhaps they had no control over it, which is unfortunate.  Furthermore, it was difficult to leave this book out in the open home library with such a cover.  It remains hidden deep in a drawer.

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