We All Fall Down: Living with Addiction

Just as good as the first one. This book is raw, emotional, relatable, and I love the author's writing style.

I read Tweak after reading Beautiful Boy, by Nic's father, twice. I am the mother of an addict. When I saw Nic had written another book, I instantly read the reviews and kindled it immediately, honestly not expecting to be as moved by it as I was by Tweak. That is not the case. Nic, thank you for writing this book, it was amazing. It may sound odd to call a book about the tortures of someones life amazing, but, this book is. Nic lets us see every twisted, terrible downward spiral by being honest with how he feels and what he thinks, no matter how dirty it sounds. His braveness is unbelievable, letting us see the worst of him. Then, we also get a glimpse of the greatness in him and the hope that lies within. And that hope gives me hope, for him, for my son, for every addict out there. Nic DOES NOT whine about 12 step programs nor does he bash them. He simply doesn't think they are his way. They may work for most, but perhaps not for him, or they are not the be all end all. He does participate in treatment that is not 12 step based, although he said he goes to a meeting once in a while. Since when does one thing make sense for ALL, every single person? That thinking is so off track. There is always a percentage of people that the common cure does not work for. All Nic is saying is that 12 step isn't for him, let's not crucify him for it. If he had cancer, maybe chemo would work for most, but maybe not for him, are we gonna fry him for that? I applaud how he figured out what he is comfortable with, and stayed true to himself. He doesn't say don't do treatment, he says find the treatment that feels right to you. This book is just as good as Tweak, and I sincerely hope Nic keeps writing, because I, for one, will be buying his next one. Be well Nic and thank you, thank you, thank you.

I had to read this, as I had already read Beautiful Boy, then Tweak, so I had to find out how Nic was progressing. I did notice that a lot of the writing was in three's crying, crying, crying.... or breathing, breathing , breathing. OK, that was all thru the book. But, none the less, I did enjoy this book. Nic seemed to fall in love, or at least he thought it was love at almost any girl he saw. The girl from the airport that came up to him out of no where, and others. Zelda, she was toxic for him. He does admit that while he is at these schools he is not sober. I did like the ending, which i wont spoil for anyone.

Well Nic does it again. He writes a very addictive book on Addiction. His writing is human. His writing is truthful. He is not perfect, but then none of us are. This is the book about what happens after he gets the contract for his first book, "Tweak" (which by the way is amazing too..... ) So this book is about what he does in-between getting sober and then going on the book tour for "Tweak" with his dad.... who by the way also wrote an awesome book about addiction called, "Beautiful Boy." Read that book too!!! I think this is a great book that will help ANY and ALL addicts. If you know someone who is suffering from ANY addiction I think Nic's experience and his heartfelt and truthful book will help ANY addict understand that they are not alone and what they need to do NOW to start the healing process. I loved this book. Nic is definitely a writer who's first books are about him. I can expect to see more books or screenplays out of this talented young man.... and I will definitely read them. Bravo Nic. You are an Artist, a Healer and a Soul that strikes to the core of what Addiction can be about. This book is a healing.

Before purchasing this book, I read the reviews on it and was worried it would be a disappointment compared to Tweak and Beautiful Boy. I had read that Nic was completely narcissistic in We All Fall Down, and whined about the recovery process. All that aside, I am very glad I purchased this book. Nic's story is heartwrenching. The way he writes may come off as narcissistic at times, but I honestly read his words as having a sarcastic tone; as though he's looking back at the past and how his mind was working at that point in time and is saying, "oooh no, I have a grip now.. I'm completely dependent on alcohol but hell, I can handle it this time" and then rolling his eyes at his own addict mentality. Nic writes in a very honest way, and I have a ton of admiration for him and his father for having the courage to show the world such destruction. This second book of Nic's shows more of his bipolar (in my opinion). When reading Tweak, I kept wondering if he was bipolar or not (I'm a graduate student in mental health), and was glad to read that he had finally been diagnosed and was having some success with medication. This second book, shows his dark side much more than Tweak and less mania. Personally, I connect very well with Nic and his writing. At times, his writing is a trigger for me and I think those reading this for their own addiction recovery should be aware of that potential. I read a comment on here about how he was whining about being in recovery on his 21rst birthday. Obviously, the writer of that comment had not been an addict, or had not been an addict at such a young age. That was one of my hardest obstacles to face in my own recovery - watching everyone my age experimenting with alcohol and knowing that I simply could not. That was the single most important factor in my relapses. It made me angry that I couldn't be "normal", and reading Nic's words reflected those same feelings back to me. I didn't see him as whining about it whatsoever, just being open and honest about how he was thinking/feeling. Alcohol wasn't his drug of choice, and as any addict knows coming to the realization that the drug doesn't matter so much as the process is difficult, painful and a daily struggle. Realizing that you cannot partake in social events deemed age appropriate, or even just socially appropriate, and AVOIDING those events is a whole process in itself... I think Nic effectively shared this struggle and hope that others connected with it as much as I did.

I read "Beautiful Boy" by David Sheff. I read "Tweak" and then I brought "We All Fall Down" and read it almost straight through, just like I had the other 2 books. David Sheff is an excellent writer, and his son is maybe even a better writer. Everyone has a right to their opinion, and there are people saying nasty things about Nic and addicts in general. I submit my opinion, that you don't know what you're talking about! I was married to an addict for 21 years and I still feel bad about the fact that he chose his addictions (drugs & alcohol) over living a productive, clean life with me. It's sad because so many lives and minds are wasted because of drugs. Nic tells a compelling, honest story of his life and for the record: I'm in agreement with him that AA and NA are NOT for everyone. There are people who get clean on their own and every individual addict is unique. Many addicts are people who have other disorders (behavioral and psychological) on top of their addictions. I'm glad Nic got clean and I hope he stays sober forever! I look forward to reading more of his books, whatever he chooses to write about.

Was this book good? Yes! This book shows the true side of Nic's addiction and what recovery is all about. As a fellow author of an addiction memoir and a counselor at a treatment center, Nic's story shows exactly how difficult addiction is to beat. I believe many people were disappointed with this book because Nic's first book was an exciting book filled with drug stories; however, this book is raw, exposing every bit of Nic's biploar and addiction. Recovery is not easy and this book shows that. To write a poor review on this book because Nic struggled with sobriety is pure ignorance and should be ignored. This book is honest and worth your time! If you have not read Tweak yet, then read Tweak first. Intervention: Anything But My Own Skin

Took this book on vacation and enjoyed it. It’s a juicy read with lots of tidbits about celebs.

“We All Fall Down: Living with Addiction” traz a continuação das memórias de Nic Sheff iniciadas no livro “Tweak: Growing Up on Methamphetamines”. Ambos, juntamente com o livro “Beautiful Boy” de David Sheff trazem a história verídica e devastadora do poder das drogas em destruir pessoas e famílias. Especificamente neste livro, Nic traz a continuação de suas memórias enquanto um viciado. Um livro que traz a verdade, por mais difícil e dura que seja de ser lida e escrita, mostrando que a vida de um viciado em drogas é um problema extremamente sério. Mesmo em momentos de sobriedade, recaídas ocorreram na recuperação de Nic e elas são descritas neste livro. Um livro altamente recomendado para usuários de drogas, pessoas que conhecem e/ou convivem com usuários de drogas e, também, para aqueles que têm interesse em saber mais sobre o assunto. Uma obra que traz uma lição fundamental aos usuários de drogas: existe luz no fim do túnel. Com devido tratamento e auxílio de amigos e familiares é possível sim buscar uma forma de não depender das drogas para seguir a vida. O filme “Beautiful Boy” (“Querido Menino”) faz um apanhado geral destes livros e merece ser visto. Todos estes livros são altamente recomendados, assim como o filme.

Autobigrafischer Roman, der mir gut gefallen hat. Ich habe ihn gern gelesen, mit Unterbrechungen allerdings, da er stellenweise schwere Kost oder langatmig war.

One of the most gripping story’s of all time from a truly inspiring man.

Can’t wait to get into reading this book. Just finished reading Tweak his first book. Purchased it used came in perfect condition.

Acquistato dalla mia ragazza dopo aver visto il film, le è piaciuto!