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Why Don't We - Spice IT UP is a handcrafted, therapist-endorsed card game featuring 150 cards with conversations and dares designed to deepen intimacy and ignite fun for couples. Ideal for breaking routines and enhancing communication, it suits all relationship stages and makes a perfect gift for romantic occasions.












| ASIN | B093BCC4VP |
| Age Range Description | Couples |
| Best Sellers Rank | #4,392 in Toys & Games ( See Top 100 in Toys & Games ) #104 in Dedicated Deck Card Games |
| Brand Name | Why Don't We |
| Color | Multicolor |
| Container Type | Pack |
| Customer Package Type | FFP |
| Customer Reviews | 4.4 out of 5 stars 2,029 Reviews |
| Educational Objective | Enhancing interpersonal communication and relationship skills through interactive and engaging activities |
| Grenre | Party |
| Included Components | Cards |
| Indoor Outdoor Usage | Indoor |
| Is Assembly Required | No |
| Item Dimensions | 2.75 x 2.75 x 3 inches |
| Item Type Name | game |
| Item Weight | 200 Grams |
| Language | English |
| Manufacturer | Why Don't We |
| Manufacturer Maximum Age (MONTHS) | 900 |
| Manufacturer Minimum Age (MONTHS) | 204 |
| Manufacturer Part Number | A CARD |
| Material Type | Cardstock |
| Number of Items | 150 |
| Number of Players | 2 |
| Operation Mode | Manual |
| Other Special Features of the Product | Handmade |
| Package Quantity | 1 |
| Power Source | Manual |
| Product Style | Contemporary |
| Set Name | Spice IT UP |
| Size | Small |
| Theme | Love |
| UPC | 726754781186 |
| Unit Count | 1 Count |
H**Y
Relationship tool
Mild cards are awesome for couples married many years or just starting to get to know one another. Suggest taking when going out to dinner or even having supper at the family table with children present. You can always use adult judgment which cards to use. Medium cards are perfect after kids go to bed or empty testers are settling in after dinner. Spicy cards..let's just say..play at your own risk and 😉 enjoy. Highly recommend to those only in love. One rule..play only with partner you trust.
J**A
Fun and gets you to talk
Great way to open up. So far we've only done the mild and some medium cards. We have learned a lot about each other - things that we didn't know 5 years into our relationship!
M**R
Great! But could use a few tweaks.
Wow, this game is a blast! Romantic, imaginative, and yes… plenty spicy. It’s worth buying no matter how long you’ve been married. My wife and I are in our 50s, married 28 years, and we loved it. Honestly, it might have been even better in our 20s or 30s, for variety sake. A few suggestions for the creators: • Some cards need time or turn limits (e.g. “number pile” → 3 turns, “storytelling” → 3 minutes, “full-size mirror” → 5 minutes). • The “write five fantasies” card is definitely a game-ender. So maybe limit it to quick, non-intercourse ideas, or make it a Spiciest card. • “Game of 21” should clarify if it’s Blackjack (I’d cap it at 3 rounds). • A few cards could move categories: • “French kiss” → Medium (unless it’s an Australian kiss—then definitely a Spicy card. 😉) • “Drawing a number/spanker” → one of the Medium cards, or possibly Mild. • “Hot and steamy” + “New things” → Spiciest • “Tie me,” “Kiss and lick,” and “Something edible” → Spicy/Medium High Last thing would be have some extra bonus packs to insert into the regular piles, that can be played exclusively during cold winters or hot summers. Would definitely be a fun addition! Overall: creative, fun, and a great way to spark connection. Highly recommend.
N**S
Perfect Blend of Fun, Connection & Intimacy
Spice It Up is an amazing couples game that really delivers on its promise—more fun, more love, and more intimacy. With 150 cards split into three levels—mild, medium, and spicy, you can ease in or turn up the heat depending on your mood. The prompts are thoughtful and engaging, sparking meaningful conversations, flirty moments, and deeper connection. We especially loved the “Why don’t we…?” cards—such a fun way to explore new ideas and learn more about each other. Whether you’re just starting out or have been together for years, this 18+ game is a great way to build closeness while having a few laughs (and maybe blushing a little too!). Highly recommended for couples looking to rekindle or strengthen their bond.
S**Y
Too boring
Not as spicy as I thought. The questions were bland and not really engaging for us. You can Google these questions online. Play never have I ever instead.
B**T
A great card game!
A very good mix of topics that facilitate connection and conversation. I also like that it doesn't require drinking, which is a non-starter for me.
S**E
Great game to play with your spouse
Super fun game to play with your significant other. The title definitely works
J**E
Get it!
Definitely spicy! Me and my fiance love this game
K**Ė
Interesting game!
Good game, was fun.
R**Z
Fun and simple
Looking for some simple games for me and my partner and found this. The prompts are creative, ranging from playful challenges to meaningful conversation starters, making it easy to break out of routine and bond with my partner in a fun way. I also appreciate that the game encourages open communication and spontaneity, keeping things fresh in our relationship. However, one downside is that some cards may feel a bit repetitive over time, especially if played frequently. Still, it’s a fantastic game for couples looking to enhance their connection and bring more romance into their relationship.
S**R
Fun item great conversation starter would recommend
Was a bit dubious about these but wanted to add some fun. Some of the questions are great. Not all rude, great conversation starter. Would recommend for a partner you don’t know what to buy
M**G
Fun
Fun game to play any time of the day
L**E
Great for couples with intimacy issues
Just note that the person assigning the cards 3 levels mild medium and spicy didn’t show up for work that day. The mild ones were spicer and such. Great purchase though. We love it
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